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I'd like to apologize

Hey everyone. This isn't Feh related but I just wanted to say I'm sorry to everyone who was a part of my previous forum.

This one
https://fireemblem.gamepress.gg/q-a/i-want-die

I felt like it was about one thing but then turned into a forum about me forcing people to listen about my financial problems and my trust issue of free wifi. No one wanted to listen to it, I know. But I felt like I needed to explain why I feel about this stuff when it wasn't even what the post was about. Idk, I just feel like I got on peoples nerves and that was my last intention. I guess I was still pissed that my game wouldn't update for two days (it's STILL not done), so I needed some way to vent.
Again, I'm sorry. No one wanted to hear my sob stories, and I shouldn't of really talked about it in the first place. I was just kinda agro'd and speaking my mind.

Asked by ShieldOfWind2 weeks 5 days ago
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by Nilla 2 weeks 5 days ago

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Oh look, it's the anti-lolicon guy. Showing us a caption with a loli.
Great job, preciate ya Nilla. Even though your opinion doesn't matter. Thanks for completely changing the topic of my point, really like that.

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It's fine, really. The internet is the best place to vent to when there's no one else to talk to, and I won't judge you for that. We're all strangers right?

Most of us aren't unforgiving people. What people say online don't stay in our heads for long anyways. The most we can help with is through giving quickly typed advice.

Hopefully you can overcome your fears and your other issues eventually. Good luck with updating your game? Public library wifi isn't bad.

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by Deef 2 weeks 5 days ago

I missed that question so i read it to know what happend, i am genius, right?
But in all seriousness, i think it's alright, i can relate to you in that regard, you know, being sorry for saying stuff you didn't paln to. But sometimes you need to talk to someone and share that pain you have, we all need it more or less.
When i read all those comments i seen people who was there to help so i suggest to say thank you rather than sorry, trust me, that will make them feel better or i believe so.

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One of the reasons I made this. Don't think they'll look at a forum that far back. So this was to apologize to everyone I may have seemed a bit harsh too. But thank you, I appreciate your time.

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The thing about venting is: it's not really healthy or necessary. People act like it is, but really all it does is make you continue to think (negatively) about whatever it is that's bothering you. It's much more healthy and productive to work on either coming up with a solution to the problem, or--if it is truly something outside your ability to change--developing a better mental state so that it doesn't bother you so much. Seriously. People need to stop telling themselves and each other that venting is healthy or that we all need to do it, because that's just not true.

And then there's the fact that strangers usually DGAF about your problems. I mean, it's hard enough sometimes to get sympathy from your friends/family, so why should you expect any from strangers? Especially on the internet, which is full of trolls?

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I belong to the opposite school. I believe that people lose part of their sanity and humanness if they feel genuinely upset about something and there's not a person in the world who will listen to it. Certain people who were very influential in my early life espouse your perspective, and I find that I'm immeasurably worse despite having survived it.

I do agree that venting to strangers is inappropriate though, and dangerous for the one trying to get some frustration out.

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by Tandor 2 weeks 5 days ago

Apology accepted, now go download a trusted app that will help you secure your device and hop on that free WiFi!

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